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Oh Dear God This Got A Whole Lot More Complex


sammie

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Ok.
Life.
Got.
Complex.
I can't put this on my normal journal because I know they'll see it. Lowdown - the guy next to me in halls likes me, I like him, he asked me out, I said yes. Except we live together so its awkward, I've never been out with anyone, I'm a geek, people don't like me. People do not like me. I am not popular. I am not pretty. I am not thin, and he is STUNNING. Why does he like me? I can't figure that out? He said "I like you just the way you are, and who you are" christ, people have been saying for ages that he likes me, and god I like him but why the hel is it so complex. I just don't want people in the hall to find out. This is scarier than moving out.

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You'll be fine. Keep it quiet if you feel better that way.

The guy likes you for being you. From what you have said on NW you seem a friendly, funny girl and what else is there not to like about you.

Have fun ;)

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[quote]I am not popular. I am not pretty. I am not thin[/quote]

You may think that about yourself but it's clear that this geezer thinks something completely different. Don't over analyse or complicate things, just go with the flow and have a little bit of fun. No need to get too serious too quickly, just enjoy each others company and see what happens.

If you don't want others in the hall finding out then they won't, just be discrete and laid back about things for the moment - you can be friends in the 'public eye' and no-one will think or need to know any different.
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I agree with all the above comments. From a girl who always over analyses everything, dont! I have spent most my life analysing everything - all it does is knock your confidence. He likes you for you - go with the flow and enjoy!
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Go for it Sammie! If I was closer......

younger
thinner
handsome
muscled
witty
charming
rich
entertaining

:doh:

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