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Failed Promises


*Stormforce~beka*

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I am sick of people saying they are going to do something and then going back on their word. My sister has been saying she will book her flight for the past 3 months to come home from Australia. She said she had no money. Then she said she needed a bit more and would book the week after, and then she didnt have enough again, this went on for weeks. ..

And now my dad has gone back on his word of not bailing her out again, and has stuck a grand in her bank account!! Thats how she got out there in the first place ... he gave her a grand for a deposit on a flat when she was homeless but she used it to go to Australia and run away with some guy she met on the net and had never spoke to. Seems like all she needs to do is cry and and she will get a grand. It's sick. She had bill troubles when her bf spent all the money, so dad spent a grand paying all her bills.

Don't get me wrong im not jelous of the money at all. It's just that she needs to learn to fend for herself. And how will she when this crap is going on :nonono: Course now the stupid cow knows where to go for money.A little cry of being poor and there - plop - in her bank another grand :cray::doh: GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

Ever felt like dis-owning your family?

My dad has parkinsons disease and has recently put me on a power of attorney to pay his bills etc when the time comes.

He had a lump of money as he no longer works. I was brought up in a poor family - on benefits etc. So this money is like a gold pot. The thing is he has to think of his future and the money will be needed for then. But he is giving it away like its sweeties.

He is buying random junk he doesnt even need and expensive stuff. Just spend spend spend. I've told him off more than once about it. What will I do when the time comes and I have to pay the bills and things and he has spent it all??How will I pay for his nursing home care? Etc etc etc!! He seems to think oh its all ok - it will be fine. He will get disability allowance. Ok so what if he will. Make the most of the money you have now and make it last ... stupid prick.

God I hate my family so bloody much :doh: :wub: :o

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Beka, it's true that you can't choose your family, you just have to find a way to cope with them :(

I can understand how you feel, Mr Loo bails out his eldest frequently, dispite saying he won't. It's not that I don't want him to spend money on his kids but he has to let him be responsible for himself for his own good and self-assteem (sp)

Good luck

Kt

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