the SEly component in this set up is caused by cold air undercutting the warm air trying to feed in off the atlantic. A SEly wind will only favour East of the Pennines if it originates from a cold continental Europe and brings convective snow from the N Sea.
the precipitation in friday's set-up will come from the moist air out west being forced up and over the cold air currently over the UK. Where this occurs cold air will rush NWwards to fill the gap left by the less dense warm air - hence the SEly wind - the bigger the temperature difference between the two air masses, the stronger the wind.