Friday may be a non event , or it may be the storm of the century, lots of variability in the models for the track and intensity of Fridays storm. So unfortunately its impossible to say what will happen at the moment.
The worries over the potential for this week's winds have arisen because the particular atmospheric conditions which lead to short notice, extreme windstorm events (bomb cyclogenesis) are present and aimed squarely towards us. So the possibility for an extreme event is there.
However it is a possibility, rather than a certainty - and no one can say for sure whether this will happen. It's a bit like Russian Roulette at the moment!
Everyone's hoping for a blank (ok , apart from on here) , but the uk could be in line for the bullet.
I would say there's a one in 6 chance of an extreme windstorm hitting the south - they do from time to time. Although, if my memory serves me correctly , the last full gale we experienced in London was in about 2002 or 2003. so they havent been common in the last few years. we are probably overdue a gale.
I do like a good blow!